Wednesday, February 13, 2013

Happy new year and a solemn Lent?

I confess that I don't know what an appropriate greeting for the Lenten season is.  But, it began today with Ash Wednesday and continues for 40 days (not counting Sundays because Sunday is a day of celebration.)

I've been trying to figure out what to "do" for Lent this year.  Well, because of Johnny Football (stay with me for a moment), I was directed to the blog Team Whitaker.  And although I have some different traditions, being Protestant, rather than Catholic, I found Kathryn's writing inspiring.  I have heard before that Lent does not need to be a time of just giving up, but can also be a time of adopting new practices.  Rather than depriving oneself of chocolate, one might commit instead to not swearing.  Or, more positively, making it a point to reach out to others - giving, instead of giving up.  Well, Kathryn points to three practices: prayer, fasting, and almsgiving.  I like that. 40 Days of Awesomeness

There are some things I have thought about giving up and taking on for myself, but I'd like to find a way for MJ and I to use this time together.  We can make this a family thing.  What might that look like?  It's probably not going to involve a household ban on bacon or beer.

I think perhaps the larger practice of Lent is discipline.  Being intentional, being disciplined.  And that's where I think we will direct our focus.  We will see how it goes.

My goal as I enter the Lenten season is always to emerge "better" on the other side.  Physically, mentally, spiritually.  So, that's the goal again this year.  Perhaps with an extra dose of pre-marital reflection.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

I always feel the same way about Lent...a time to be better than I am the rest of the year...or at least get back on track. Good luck and Godspeed to us both!